Today, I’m not going to write about
seduction, but about sex education. I’m not going to mention weird
positions, I’m not going to recommend condom brands, and I’m not going
to teach you how to make love (or to make a drawing of how to do that).
Masturbation
happens in every culture, across every period of history, and it's the way most
adolescents discover what they enjoy before embarking on adult sexual
relationships.
I want to talk about an issue that is pretty serious which could affect a man’s lifestyle: (masturbation).
I want to talk about an issue that is pretty serious which could affect a man’s lifestyle: (masturbation).
You see, I’ll start right away by
breaking the ice and tell you clearly and simply that we’ve all
masturbated at least once. Everyone does that and everyone will keep
doing that. And this is when the dangers of masturbation come.
When you’re 14, masturbating is a normal
thing, even when done several times. At 14, people discover their
sexuality, and we test our machine, we explore our body. There’s nothing
wrong about that. But if you’re over 22 years old, and that you still
masturbate when you take a shower, while fantasizing about you
next-door neighbor, then, if you allow me, there’s something wrong with
you.
Masturbation can
completely destroy your life, and I’m talking seriously. If you jerk off
frequently, you can become addicted. And unfortunately, you may end up
needing your daily dose of jerking off.
I’ve had friends who masturbated so much
they put masturbation in their hobbies list. When the guy’s bored, he
takes a shower, a little oil and, bam, he’s in heaven (in fact, he’s not
in heaven, he’s in hell).
As time goes by, this man may repeat the
same process, not because he wants to or because of his sexual
appetite, but just as a natural reflex. When you wake up, you brush your
teeth (or at least I hope you do) and you never feel like you need an
effort to do that. Brushing your teeth every morning is a natural
gesture. You get used to it.
The same thing happens with
masturbation. If you masturbate everyday, you will ADOPT this act as
part of your daily life, along with drinking water, eating toast bread,
going to work, to school, Face-booking, msn messenger…
And you will, therefore, become a lazy
person, dead inside, and completely deserted. It’s tough, and I would
even go as far as saying, it’s miserable.
The art of seduction requires practice
(read this article) and when we’re lazy, there’s no damn thing we can do
about our lives (sorry about these words, but I’ve been overridden by
emotion).
In fact,it’s very simple to stop
When you practice masturbation obsessively, you KILL all those sexual
crutches that can motivate you to work on projects that can sound
important. Not to mention seducing women…
However,
if it's becoming an obsession that's infringing on other areas of your life, or
you belong to a religion or philosophy that forbids masturbation, it's possible
to curb the impulse.Here's
how to muster the self-discipline and master your urges.
How to avoid this disaster?
Stop doing it systematically. Of course. If you’re already deeply addicted, I would advice that you do it, at worst: once a week. Don’t jerk off like crazy, like a soldier!! Give yourself a specific day when you will give yourself this luxury, I was about to say loyally. But not like a fucking pervert!
But beware!
This is JUST the beginning to heal you from this practice! While you wait this important day, you SHOULD go out and meet people, doesn’t matter who (ideally women of course). If you can quit this bad habit, you will win big. You will take a huge step towards becoming a ladies’ man. Women are not monsters. All you have to do is talk to them and you’ll see how innocent and lovely they are. If you have trouble talking to women, go to the “talking to women: category. You will find at least 20 articles to get started.
Therefore, instead of the
shower/masturbation package, you will go for the date/seduction package.
You will keep your mind and spirit busy, and your hands will do other
things than being on a date with your wiener J
All this is for your own good!
Now, this is what I want you to do...
(Stop mentally punishing yourself)
(1)Firstly,
Stop
mentally punishing yourself),If you meet people who masturbate
as consistently as they breathe, stop immediately. Or you know what?
Masturbate tonight, for the last time, and then set yourself a far away
date to repeat the act. Of course, if you can quit, I would be very
thankful.
Consider it this way: if you're constantly dwelling on
why you're a bad person for masturbating, you're essentially still
thinking about masturbation all the time. Don't just trade in your
masturbation addiction for a guilt addiction — they're so closely
intertwined that you'd be asking for trouble. Instead, acknowledge that
this has been a problem for you, but you're working on it.
- Remember, you're human. Humans make mistakes, and they have sexual urges. Neither of these things makes you an inherently bad person. (If they did, though, you'd be in good company with over 90% of people on the planet.) Forgive yourself, and keep in mind that you are more than the sum of your slip-ups.
- Resist the urge to sink into a pit of despair by remembering that time spent feeling sorry for yourself is time wasted, and minutes you could have put toward conquering your addiction.
(2)Secondly,
Remove
anything that makes it easy for you to masturbate. If it's too easy for you to indulge, get rid of whatever
is helping to make it possible. Some common enablers include:
- Access to pornographic material: If you have a stash and you're serious about quitting masturbation, you'll have to get rid of all of it. Burn or shred paper, wipe your hard drive, and set up parental controls on your internet browser that block explicit content.
- Sex toys: If you own any objects that exist for the sole purpose of masturbating, they'll have to go, too. Throw them into the garbage can you can find in your house (the kitchen's a good bet), and add something on top that will make the item irretrievable — like last month's leftovers.
- Certain times of the day: If you have problems before going to bed or in the shower, isolate these times and find a way to make masturbation less appealing. For instance, if it's a problem late at night, drop to the floor and do pushups until you're too exhausted to do anything but fall asleep. If you find shower time too tempting, start using ice cold water only — you won't want to be in there for long.
- Boredom: If you have so little to do that your mind frequently wanders to sexual thoughts, it's time to add to your schedule. You'll find it gets easier to avoid masturbation if you're too busy or tired to spare any energy for distractions. (More on this in later steps.)
- Loneliness: If you masturbate frequently because you feel terrible about being lonely, find ways to limit your solitary time. For instance, instead of watching the game at home by yourself, go watch it at a sports bar. Even if you're not hanging out with friends, you aren't alone, and your potential masturbation time is dramatically reduced.
- (3)Thirdly,
- I want you to share this article. What I’ve just written is very important. I know that many young men (and great young men) are victims of this social problem. Use Facebook, twitter and your emails to get the message across. Women have been sent to this planet to save humanity. This is your big day, and don’t disappoint me. And most importantly, don’t be shy to publish this article on your Facebook page. You should be proud (a ladies’ man is never a shy man).
Finally,
I’d like you to tell me what you think about all this. Once
again, I may repeat myself, don’t be shy. If you’re you have the guts to
tell me when was the last time you masturbated, don’t tell me it was
two years ago, because I’m not gonna believe you.
I know it takes time to stop masturbating,but try your best and i assure that you will overcome this Sexual desire......
